I'm really sorry to read of your boyfriend's passing Katie, and on behalf of the Cancer Chat team, I would like to offer you our sincerest and heartfelt condolences.

I'm also sorry to see you haven't been offered any support. Do get in touch with your GP and let them know how much you're struggling at the moment as they will be able to help. I'm not sure if you're aware but there is bereavement counselling such as cruse bereavement or the loss foundation available across the country to those who are coming to terms with the loss of a loved one so this may be another avenue worth investigating to get you through this difficult time.

Many members here know how difficult it is to work through grief and hopefully some of them will be along soon to offer their support and advice but in the meantime I'm including some information we have about coping with grief for you to have a look at.

My thoughts are with you at this time Katie.

Kind regards,

Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

Hi Katie

I was so sorry to read this my condolences to you am thinking of you. I can understand it must be so hard to cope with this. When I saw your post I really felt for you I Can relate as my partner to has Alk lung cancer I saw your previous post  and its hard to deal with. So im thinking of you at this time hope you can get some support soon.

Sending Love.

Everything I try to write sounds wrong to me, so will probably sound worse to you. Just know that I hear your pain. What a fabulous love you two experienced. 

Keep treading water until you can swim again. xx

I,m so so sorry, there can never be any words that help or heal, my fiance passed , he was waiting to get better too, please get help, I didn't, and 10 years on iim still consumed by his loss