Last night my best friend text me, she had something to tell me but could do it over the phone or in a tx. I felt sick. My worst nightmare. I went to the hospital. She was admitted Sunday for an infection. The Dr's told her after a scan it had spread. Nothing they can do. We sat cried and talked. She's only 50. Cancer doesn't care though about age does it..my mind is racing, so much to take in. One minute I'm buying her Christmas gifts the next I'm thinking of hospices. I'm thinking of the present, the past, at memories and of the future of not having her in my life... It's too much... One day at a time they say.... I'm trying to do an hour for now...