Hi! My mum was diagnosed with breast cancer last month. About ten days ago they told us it has spread to her lungs, liver and stomach. She meets her oncologist tomorrow for the first time. Ten days ago we were told she'll receive chemo and immunotherapy. Her treatment hasn't started yet.
Obviously I will put these questions to them but I've been thinking for a few days now and really wondering if anybody can clarify. She's not got out of bed since Friday and has probably eaten 4 - 6 spoons of food each day. She's drinking little water (especially for her) and just doesn't have any strength or energy.
Does this mean she's coming to end of life? Also, if she's this weak then will they delay or refuse to start her chemo? I know every case is different and only her MDT can decide for her but just curious to know if anybody has been through similar please.
Thank you x