Hi; not sure where to start. My mum was told this morning (and us) that she has advanced sigmoid colon cancer. She thought she was badly constipated but this became very painful so she was taken to a&e - we still thought at this stage she was just impacted etc. They did a ct which the doctor said showed a malignancy causing a bowel obstruction. The surgeons say they cannot cure with surgery as there are other areas in the bowel aswell so her options are basically have surgery to try and deal with obstruction which may not go very well (they tried to put a stent in this afternoon but that failed) or do nothing and have 1-2 weeks to live! I am so shocked and devastated. I am sat here alone because my partner is at work and I don’t know what to make of it all. Have to go back in the morning for her to decide what she wants. I feel like I’ve been hit by a ton of bricks - she’s my best friend.