Hello Leeann, 

I know you've had some advice on your other thread about how long they thought your Mum might have to wait for a biopsy. I think a lot of our members would agree that waiting for tests and then test results is a really difficult time and the uncertainty can be very difficult to deal with. Easier said than done sometimes but trying to take things one day at a time can be a help, especially if it all feels a but much. 

If you'd think it would be helpful to speak to one of our team of nurses at any point about Mum's situation, then please do give them a call. They're available Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm on 0808 800 4040 (free to call from a UK landline). 

Do keep in touch Leeann and let us know how Mum gets on.

Sending you both our best wishes, 
Jenn
Cancer Chat moderator

Thanks Jenn for your advice it great for someone to finally reply.

yes you are totally right, it's best to get on with things the best I can. I think mostly what I'm trying to do is try to understand the part where the tumour is etc.  I have been keeping myself busy most days and that's helped, I actually laughed a lot yesterday and didn't feel guilty. My mum is still her bubbly self and smiling still. 

i just worry they can't do anything, but I guess this is normal feelings. 

Yes I will keep you posted.

leeann.