My mother is 74 and despite never smoking had a lung removed 11 years ago because of lung cancer . She has been unwell for 8 months due to recurrent shingles . A chest X-ray 5 weeks ago showed the cancer has returned . A biopsy has confirmed this . She is going to get the full diagnoses in one week . She has already all but given up . No positivity , no interest in anything . Think she is very depressed and today has started on anti depressants but it’s made her feel sick and she says she’s not taking any more . She may have a lot of life left in her but it’s like she’s already given up . What can I do to help her . ?