Hi,
My mum told me just yesterday that she has cancer, she had to tell me over the phone as I live so far away. It was a HUGE shock to me, as it is to anyone.
I live in a shared house and all of us have had to go through difficult things with our mums recently. One housemates' mum was diagnosed with breast cancer 4 months ago, another housemates' mum suddenly died only 1 month ago and now my mum has been diagnosed with cancer, but none of us are particularly close, and so it's hard to live there at the moment as we're all a bit glum.
My mum originally had issues with sudden bleeding from her womb, and it would be quite a lot, they found some growths there but after checking, they told us they were benign. She was given many different treatments to stop the bleeding but none seemed to work, so in the end they decided to give her a hysterectomy. After the operation (which i couldn't come to as I live so far and work full time) they checked the growths once again and found that they were cancerous, and there is the possiblity that it spread to her cervix or pelvis. She is going in for another surgery to have her cervix removed and so they can check to make sure it hasn't spread.
I'm so worried and scared, I can barely keep it together now, what if it has spread? I'm so nervous for her and full of regrets that I moved away and couldn't be there for her the past few weeks, and I even might not be able to make this next surgery (she won't even have any friends available to help her this time), even though the both of us want me to come.
I'm very worried and haven't had to go through anything like this close to me before, I've had 2 uncles who've gone through cancer, one survived and one unfortunately who didn't survive but I was quite young with the first uncle and sadly not too close to my other uncle in the latter years of his life.
It's very hard to concentrate at work at the moment and in some respects I feel like I'm being overdramatic.