Mum is so scared

Hi my mum has been told she has a few weeks left before she passes. She is absolutely petrified about falling asleep and not waking up. If she drops off she wakes up screaming, i really dont know how to reassure her. Please could i get some advice 

  • I joined just to tell you I am praying for your mum. I pray for you also that if you don't already know this you will come to know it. This fear is one I know, I am so sorry for your dear mum but now I pray that a peace that passes understanding will be with her.

  • Hi there ... just wanted to send you and your mum a big hug ... how unbearable that you have to go through this, but I bet she’s so proud of you holding her hand on this last journey we all have to have ,... they hold our hands, fed us, cleaned us and loved us ... so it’s wonderful your helping her now ..... big big hug and sending loving thoughts .... Chrisie ️ Xx

  • Hello, I was very sad to read your post. This was one of the hardest things I faced when my mum had cancer. It still haunts me now that she wasn’t ready to go. I will suggest a few things – I hope this helps… I tried to fill my mum’s days with peace, I use to give her foot massages and paint her nails. Is there anything your mum loves that you can bring her? I am not sure if she is spiritual or whether seeing a priest or anything would help, my mum chose not to. We just surrounded her with friends and family and I personally didn’t talk about passing away as I didn’t want her to have to face it, I tried to talk about other things. How are you both doing?x

  • Hi I'm so sorry about your mum. I'm praying for her and for you just try to be strong to talk to her calmly and give her a lot of love and happiness even if is not easy for her but I hope she'll feel a bit better. If you need to talk please let me know