Hi everyone my mum has bile duct cancer and has recently been admitted to hospital for a kidney infection the cancer is incurable which is hard to come to terms with. However I have one sister who is extremely supportive and comes with me to visit my mum in hospital and helps a lot my dad is the same but obviously needs support also. I have another sister who doesn't seem to care I have to force her to go to the hospital and she is making it seem like she would rather be doing other things! This is hard for me to understand and I constantly shout and scream at her! Because to me as a daughter you surely would want to do anything you can to be there for your mum and spend time with her! Does anyone else have family members like this? My other sister tells me to just ignore it and carry on but I can't do that as I have to sit and watch my mum basically becone a shadow of her former self.