Hi All,
I've just joined this thread as a means to help sort my emotions as I am currently dealing with caring for my mother who has liver cancer spread to multiple areas. I am 26 and lost my father to cancer a few years ago so to find that my mum is going down the same path has been devastating. This is a huge shock (the cancer was only found last month and there has been a severe deterioration since then) and the grief is sitting very heavy on me and my whole family.
She is currently in hospoital and my family and I like to be with her from 8am to 8pm (we tag team). We are all exhausted. I still work an office job (they're allowing me to work predominantly remotely) and I am finding it a real struggle to juggle the long stints at the hospital and fit in 7 hours of work too. It is also very wearying being there as mum is very unhappy and in pain (understandably).
We've had no firm prognosis (we've heard a few weeks from one doctor and a year from another) and planning for the future seems impossible. The current set up doesn't feel sustainable but with the uncertainty over how long she has left and her vulnerable emotional state, I feel alot of anxiety over her not having company.
Have others experienced this? What solutions did you reach?