Hi,
I'm a 34 year old guy and on Thursday my mum was diagnosed with incurable small cell Lung cancer. It was diagnosed by taking a sample from a tumour that had appeared in her neck. She hasn't had the full body scan yet so we don't know where else it's gone but she's in pain from this neck tumour and I hate seeing her like this.
im exceptionally close to my mum and I legitimately don't want to be here without her. I'm completely broken, I have looked online and survival rates for this type of cancer and the statistics are pretty much the worst of any cancer. She will start chemo after the scan and I can only hope that it puts it into remission for many years but I don't know...
I booked a holiday to Florida for the both of us a couple of months ago as a treat for her 60th birthday. She hasn't been back since we went there as a family with my dad back in 1993 and she was so excited and happy about going. Now I don't know if she will be here come then and it kills me.
I feel like im grieving already, I can't sleep, and when I do I wake up I start crying as I realise it isn't all a nightmare. Every minute I have new memories of my life as a child, teen and young adult where me and my mum had such happy times and it breaks me even more. I can't lose her, I just can't...
I dont know know what to do...does anyone have positive news about this type of cancer? What can I expect the scan to show? Apart from the pain of the tumour in her neck she's fine (nights and mornings are the worst), she's physically fit and the hospital have already told her their plans for chemo (18 weeks, chemo for 3 days then rest and repeat).
i just want to believe that she'll be here for many more years...or at least well enough to go to America come April...
Thanks for any help.