My mum is 85 and recently diagnosed with a large tumour in the rectum which has metastasis in liver and lungs. We are devastated as gp had been treating her for over a year for piles and never sent her for further investigation. Her surgeon is furious. She has just had a stoma bag fitted and is now home and recovering. We havent seen oncologist yet but her cancer cant be cured, any treatment will be palliative. She doesn't really want chemo thinking her quality of life will be poor. I just wondered if anyone had been in a similar position and whether treatments had been better than expected or worse. Thanks