This is my first time on here and I desperately need advice my mum was diagnosed April this year with lung cancer I've been caring for my mum and my dad whom is not healthy himself and unable to care fully for my mum as his hands legs ect dont work I've been practically living at my parents home and missing my own family not that I mind at all my mum and dad need me I've been sleeping on a blow up mattress on the floor next to my mum and my dad goes to bed as he isn't able to stay up all night caring for her I'm there all day 24/7 my mum begged me not to put her into a home and im keeping that promise unfortunately recently her cancer got so bad she was in so much pain she was on so much medication and it wasn't working to it's best abilities I was persuaded to take my mum into a hospice so they could try all different ways to improve the pain I slept in the chair next to her bed for 3 days and nights I was then told there wasn't anymore they could do and she has not got long I found it heartbreaking having to tell the rest of my family I don't seem to have anyone to speak about this as I feel it's on my shoulders the responsibility rests as I'm the eldest and the only daughter (only one brother says he appreciates everything I do but the other doesn't show anything) knew she wants to be at home so I organised it for her to come back home I've tried talking to my dad about the situation and that things are going to get worse rather than better (I never cry in front of my parents) since we have returned home my mum has started to become so confused and mixed up and today she started getting very angry and very verbally aggressive towards me and dad dad then gets angry huffing and puffing and slamming doors I'm so depressed with my own pain with my own health issues of which I've ignored my own health for months to put my parents first but its breaking my heart and wearing me down with both of them I want to run away and sob profusely but I know I cant mum hasn't got long I have not been given a time frame other than not long I'm sorry for ranting