I was diagnosed with a non muscle invasive bladder cancer 3 yrs ago. Long story short they gave me a neo bladder in April 2019. That surgery caused a vaginal fistula so I had another surgery in December 2019 2 repair it. Still incontinent & I'm regressing. Doing my pelvic floor exercises but nothing is working. Now I want the damn 5 out & given a bag... but I Really don't!!! Just want to live without being wet ALL the time