Minimal support from hospital and waiting weeks for results

So, my partner has been diagnosed with testicular cancer back in July. Looking away from the fact we had to wait over a month to find out and get him to surgery, everything went well and follow ups were recommended.

His first check-up was meant to be October. We got a letter through end of October asking us to book all the appointments ourselves - no information, contacts, how it works nothing. We called the hospital, our GP, no one was capable to properly direct us through the process. 

We finally managed to get everything sorted. It's been A MONTH and we still don't have his results. Not only this, but we contacted his nurse/department as he had some pain in lower back (which we were warned about) - no answer again.

I feel so angry, frustrated and upset. I don't want to share my frustration with my partner as he is already worried and I want to support him. 

Does anyone have a similar experience?

  • Hello Msim

    I'm sorry to hear about your partner's diagnosis and the lack of communication that you've had with the hospital. I can understand why you are feeling so frustrated and anxious about the situation. 

    Can I suggest that you contact the hospital PALS department. They provide a point of contact for patients, their families and their carers. They certainly should be able to help. 

    I do hope that you have some news soon. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator