husband has had R/C staging T3b N2. What an upheaval in life this diagnosis is & what a bumpy, rocky road we are on, going from feeling hopeful to being told by surgeon on follow up consult 5 months after surgery "chemo won't help it will be all through your body within 2 years just enjoy your life" Well how do we do that, not ready to give up without a fight. Husband is 67 years old & we come from "the land down under" so guess we are in the fight of our life. What is worse the surgeon never even looked at his I/C work to see if it is healthy or pat himself on the back at the job he did, no Dr Negative just sent us on our way "bye bye"
