Hi All,
I've not done anything like this before, but everyone always says to take the help that's there. So here goes.
My Dad was diagnosed with this terrible disease just 5 weeks ago. Since he got out of hospital 3 wks ago he has gone downhill rapidly. He is now confined to bed, far too weak to manage stairs. He hasn't eaten a bite in 5 days although he still manages fluids (We help him hold his cup/glass). He has a syringe driver insitu. We can help him to stand to use the urinal and help him transfer to the commode. He has had Cheyne Stoke breathing for past 4 nights. GP told us he suspected my dad didn't have very long left due to his respiratory rate (in the 40's when wakened) and the re-accumulation of fluid in his lung - this was 4 nights ago.
Here's the big question. Has anyone seen these symptoms so quickly? Has anyone had a loved one suffer these symptoms for any great length of time? I'm a bit confused (but very grateful) as my dad denies any great pain and I had read that this is a painful illness.
I'd be grateful if anyone could tell me if they've known of anyone to stay at the stage my dad is at, for more than a week or two.
Thank you for reading xx