Hi Esmith1207,

Welcome to Cancer Chat. I'm sorry to read about your partner - I hope everything is going OK so far and that the operation went well.

It's natural to feel this way - however you're feeling, try not to question it but to accept it and to of course recognise that it can often be stressful or worrying when a loved one is going through something like this.

It can often be helpful to write things down and to talk to people who are perhaps more neutral - and so do use this forum as much as you would like to for support. It's a very welcoming community of people and we're always here to listen.

If you feel you'd like someone to talk to on the phone or to find out any options for additional support, our nurses are available on freephone 0808 800 4040 - Monday-Friday, 9-5.

Wishing you all the best,

Ben
Cancer Chat Moderator