My husband was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer just before Christmas. He had major surgery at end of Jan which we always knew would be a hard journey to take after. He has lost 3 stone altogether. Is now waiting for chemo but not strong enough yet. Unfortunately he has always been a fussy eater but now is even worse and all we seem to do is argue over food. I feel like I have already lost my husband as he has gone from being a really motivated positive person to a grumpy little old man. To everyone else mentally he seems the same when you talk to him so I don't feel like anyone would understand where I'm coming from. I feel like a terrible person thinking the way I do. All I am trying to do is get him to eat and get well enough for the chemo.