My husband was diagnosed with stomach cancer last May and went through 132 hours intensive chemo and 9 hours surgery...he amazed everyone and left hospital afterwards with no medication. He was given all clear in January this year. We had a great 8 months then on September 5th he had chest infection and was told cancer was back and terminal. He died 3 weeks ago at home.
He was my entire life we were together 33 years. He worked from home so we really did spend every minute of every day together. Now I am so so lost without him. He was only 55.
He had never been given any follow-up scans as apparently it is not protocol for gastric cancers in UK. We also had huge failings from outside support as no one had ever spoken to him or me about dying so when he did finally pass away it was very traumatic.
Now I am not dealing with only losing him but watching him go in such a horrendous way.
My days are so empty we had so many plans but my strong happy loves life was cut short. He lived life to the full and we did so much never a dull moment.
Do not know how I can cope without him