Hi Evans41, I'm so sorry for your loss and to be welcoming you to the forum under these circumstances.

Many members here on the forum know how hard it is to come to terms with losing someone and I'm sure some of them will reply soon to offer their support and advice.

Coping with grief is tough but we are here for you and will do what we can to help you at this time.

Our thoughts are with you Evans41.

Kind regards,

Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

Hi Steph,

Thankyou for your reply, It’s been nearly 3 months on the 28th of this month, it’s not easy, I think about her every second of every day, She was the best, most kindness selfless person you could ever meet, and just feel my heart has been ripped out. I miss her so much, and just don’t know how I’m getting through each day knowing she is not here anymore. Truly heartbroken. 

Hello.  Sorry to learn of your sister's death.  You don't say how old you both were but whatever the age sisters generally have a special relationship; alll kinds of secrets shared when younger; somebody who totally understands you.  As the years go by it is sad to lose anyone with whom you had a connection - another depressing sign of time's passage but the loss of a sister - with the same shared memories and knowledge - really must hurt.  I hope you have other family around who will support and try to help you.  Annie

Hi Evans 41 I’m so sorry 4 u loss of u sister it’s so hard 4 anyone u loses a loved one 2 this horrible disease . My mother passed away 2/8/17 from bowel cancer my heart broken just can’t believe she gone and I will never see her again :( I’m just struggling at moment I just miss her so much . Sorry I can’t give u any advice. Sending u hug take care .

Hi everyone, my name is Claire, I’ve just lost my sister to cancer , on the 26 October, it’s been so hard for us all this year , even her boy Thomas had cancer to he was only 17 , for him to get the all clear , and then for him to cope with not having his mum around now it’s so cruil , he’s got us tho we are a very close family

I lost my sister 10 weeks ago on mother’s day. She was 44 and left behind a husband, mum and dad, 2 kids and 2 sisters,  I feel like a part of me has been taken too I miss her so much.  

Hi Charlie21,

Sorry to hear you lost your sister too, Yeah it's been over a year now since I lost my sister, Still cannot believe she is no longer with us, those first 6 months were the hardest for me, Im sure  you will find the strength to get through this, Sorry for your loss. Sending you a hug. Keep strong! xx

Do you feel angry?  I lost my sister to pancr. Cancer. About 7 years ago.  Still not over it.  When it happened I used to punch walls and punch my legs to deal with the anger I felt inside.  So unfair.  Wish my sister had been a little less awesome, had she been an awful sister it wouldn't hurt so much

I'm so sorry .  44 is no age at all.  My sister was 49 when she passed and I was so angry that she was take. So young.  God bless u and your family