Hi all - glad I found this forum as its probably the best place to speak to like-minded people. My mum is 86 (which considering some of the posts I have read isn't a bad age). My dad died almost 11 years ago and in 2006 my mum was diagnosed with and survived breast cancer. She is now in a residential care home because she has vascular dementia and Alzheimer's. She has been in the care home since August last year.
The care home is excellent, the care she receives is amazing. However, she is going down hill so fast. Her doc now suspects that she has liver / bone cancer (could be returning cancer or new I don't know) from blood tests taken, but because she is so frail and not up to it, no further tests are being done.
I'm the youngest of 5 and am coping with this (with a very supportive hubby) and doing as much as I can for mum, being there and trying to be strong for her. She still knows us as the dementia seems to have a slowed a bit. No she can barely swallow and is so thin. She is, I suppose, now on palliative care.
I guess, my question is, what more can I do for her? I know we can't know for sure how long she has got because no-one really knows what is going on with her - even if it really is cancer. Though I suspect the GP knows but won't speculate. What can I give her when she gets so thirsty but can't swallow anything? Any suggestions will be much appreciated.