Hi
My dad has fought this horrible disease so bravely for the last 2 years. He’s gone through chemotherapy, radiotherapy, immunotherapy and brain surgery.
I’m so frightened as I think he’s now coming to the end of his battle. He’s been gradually getting more poorly for months but this last few weeks he sleeps probably 95% of the day, barely eats or drinks and has been really confused. He wants to be at home so we are caring for him here. I take comfort in the fact he isn’t in pain.
My dad keeps telling us he’s sorry and it breaks my heart he’s feeling guilty and worrying about us when he’s going through all this.
What can I do to be there for my mum, dad and sister?
I’ve got through this last couple of years by focusing on keeping my dad well, eating etc and building him up for the treatments. Having the treatment to focus on helped us all get through each day and we adapted to our new normal but now that’s gone I feel so totally helpless and lost.
I don’t know how any of us will cope without my dad he is the rock of our family. He’s not even 60 and it breaks my heart that he has worked so hard but won’t get to enjoy his retirement with mum, he won’t get to see me or my sister get married or meet his grandchildren, I’ve always known he would be an amazing granddad. I try to take each day at a time but I can’t help thinking all these things my sister and I are both only in our 20’s and the thought of having to go through the rest of our lives without being able to pick up the phone to dad to ask his advice daily doesn’t bear thinking about.
Sorry about this long post I just don’t know where to turn.