Hello, I'm new to this but I am looking for support from people who are going through the same thing and thought I would try posting on here. I am 24 and my mother has terminal cancer with only a few months left to live. My mum was diagnosed in march 2014 with oesophageal cancer stage 4 which has spread into her liver. The doctors told us that it was terminal and chemo and radiotherapy was offered but would only buy her sometime. It came as such a shock and I found it very hard to come to terms with as she was so well in herself when she was diagnosed. She went through 3 rounds of chemo which reduced the cancer slightly but mum was very poorly and seemed to have every side effect possible. The cancer grew back very quickly but mum decided she did not want to go through any more chemo with the hope that this would give her better quality of life for the time she has left, we all supported this decision. Since then she has slowly deteriorated and it has been hard to see my fun outgoing mum change so much. She has also had radiotherapy which again reduced the cancer but it grew back so quickly again. She has also had a stent fitted to help her eat which has worked.
I was wondering if anyone else is going through this also. I feel like we have all been on a rollercoaster of a journey so far and it just gets harder the further along we go. At the moment mum struggled to get out and has hardly any energy she has anxiety attacks also. If the doctors are right then she has around 4 months left, I'm just so worried how things will be in these last months. I'm not sure what to expect and I'm worried I won't be able to stay strong for my mum and dad.
I have been to my doctor for stress and anxiety as I have suffered from panic attacks and get a tight chest and my emotions are all over the place. I am currently on a 10 week waiting list for councils, it would be nice if there is anyone who is going through this or has already lost a loved one to cancer that could share their experience with me. I think knowing that others are going through this and have been through it helps as I have felt alone.
Thanks for taking the time to read this and I hope to hear from anyone who would like to share their experience or talk to thanks :)