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Living without my wife

8 Sep 2019 19:33 in response to candie11

Its a far diffrent feeling diffrent kind of grief its like our lives have ended but they havnt you just have to take one day at a time theres now manual for this and the ones there are havnt a clue Shakespeare's said everyone knows how to deal with grief till they have to go thriugh it themselves but you can make it eisier .paul

Living without my wife

8 Sep 2019 19:34 in response to candie11

It is you blame yourself for no spotting it  you have flashbacks of her last minutes guilt and pain lost and not knowing what to do but take it minute by minute day by day don't make any hasty decisions try to eat a little and sleep a little it is and will be hell but we are all going through it

Living without my wife

8 Sep 2019 19:37 in response to Newb

Remember if drs fail how are you expected to save them remember the great things you did not the few silly things  you forgot or didnt know even drs cant save there own at times

Living without my wife

8 Sep 2019 20:00 in response to Newb

I no i have great family around me I’ve gone back to work just need a purpose  to do what I do all what I done do was. Done for my family but I still have our little dog who I bought for my wife 4 years ago 

Living without my wife

8 Sep 2019 20:02 in response to Paulus

Thanks I appreciate all your advice and I’ll takevitvall on board 

Living without my wife

18 Sep 2019 00:53 in response to candie11

My brother lost his wife only 3 weeks ago, and he too feels the same, totally broken and lost , been together for 39 yrs she was 55 yrs,   I am trying to support him any way I can and I’m grieving for him , He is devastated ....   .   I wish I could take the pain away for you both .  I have found these forums only recently and there are many supporting people with such kind words .....  my heart and thoughts go out to you, xxxxxx

Living without my wife

18 Sep 2019 05:01 in response to Mgm1962

Hi thanks for your reply and also my heart four out to your brother and family