Hi all. my sweetheart past away 3days ago.am distrought ime lucky to have had my wife liz for 5 years doesn't sound much but inlater life its much longer.anyway liz had cancer of unknown primery had late diagnosis so oncologist **** was great but only had small window of treatment it was decided to give liz two types of chemo gemcarbo on monday had chemo monday all went well had hope! Liz had no sickness but slept a lot wich seemds normal on Friday 10.30am had bad stroke paramedics were great got her into hospitle and scanned in 30 mins .time for drug stroke busting drug unfortunately was informed that because of chemotherapy she could not have them( gutted )also because of stroke no more chemo we were both distrought worse to come because she was on azathioprine and had chemo both destroy immune system.on sat develped sepsis (the hospital **** were wonderful.) I couldn't believe how fast it spread so 4 am sunday she slipped away after i got there in time and whisperd to her dont worry sweetie u will be ok she made a small quiver like she heard me (i hope )then in five minutes she stopped breathing no rattle gasping .not ime writing this with tears in my eyes for her as we were so in love and had hoped we had a good few years together but with misdiagnosis and late treatment it was not to be so it shows that you must cherish your wife husband as we realy dont know how long we will have them .from hope on friday to her slipping away sunday sepsis took her in the end can you beleive it i cant two days and my wife friend love was gone the agony is unbearable they need to sort out the system and speed up system for diagnosis waiting for emergency scans misdiagnosis i main emergancescans taking weeks then having to ring to gee them realy is shameful shameful the drs **** should hang there heads in shame and they will know who theybecause good as they are suposed to be the best dr who procrastinates is no better than the worst one this. time it realy isnt the nhs its them.they will be at work today doing same procrastinating while ime at home greiving shame on them i hate them and there blase attitude im sure there ar others out the who think same excuse my so avoid that hospital ang go somewhere else excuse and grammar as have mild dyslexia its two weeks now buried my wife monday but have begun to think the sepsis was sent to stop my liz from dying in great pain from the cancer it took her so quick and she realy died with her family and i at her bedside
