Hi

I am so sorry that you and your mum are going through this frightening experience. Believe it or not you will both feel better once you know what you are facing. The waiting is the worst time. I really feel for you, my mum has had to face so many battles and you would rather it was yourself. We feel so protective and powerless to do anything. You will be there at her side every step of the way, she is your best friend. Don't hide your feelings, let her know how much you love her. Cry together and laugh together. I am 59 and my daughter has been my rock through a terrifying time. My son lives in USA so luckily he has missed the dark hours! 

Whatever the outcome you will be together and take strength from each other.

Best wishes and remember to come on here to rant and rave! Lots do support here. 

Cx

Hi there,

it honestly sounds like you have been through hell. I lost my mum to cancer and it is the most painful thing to experience loosing someone you love, however try to keep calm until you get the results x and you need to know that there is a lot of treatment available xx

the best thing you can do whilst your waiting is be there for her, I wish u the best and send all my prayers xx 

if you need to talk then I know how this feels x