Hello. I just got here. Found out a few days ago I have bladder cancer after a trip to the Emergency Room when I started peeing blood. Yuck, I know. Anyway, I'm meeting with an oncologist Tuesday afternoon to find out what it all means. I don't know any of the fancy terms I see some of you using here, but suppose I will learn them quick enough. Of all the things I'm worried about, is how I don't feel sick at all now that the doctor stopped the bleeding, but once I start chemo, they tell me I will start feeling really sick. Hmmm, is this true? Is the "cure worse than the disease" in some respects? Dumb question, huh? Of course I'll get the treatments, just thinking out loud...