It's been 9 months since I lost my mum, I'm 48, she was 70, she had lung cancer, walked into hospital feeling unwell and died 3 weeks later.. 2 days before she was due to come home. We were best friends, I'm an only child and thought I'd be feeling better by now but it feels worse. People tell me how strong I am but when I'm alone I feel terrible, just lost, I just don't know what to do to help myself.. I live alone which probably doesn't help and I guess I'm used to the caring role. My step dad was in hospital last week with severe COPD so I'm wondering if that has put me back.. I've been doing ok before now., just miss her so much and life feels pointless and putting on a happy face all the time is becoming more difficult.. can anyone relate?