My husband was diagnosed with MM in May 19 after spinal surgery for damage to his vertabrae. He is having a SCT next month delayed from last year due to the pandemic. Although happy to be having this he's scared & can't talk about it without breaking down in tears. The only way he copes is to hide away in a world of his own, completing newspapers crosswords or going for walks when fatigue allows. He's lost his spark & there's a constant dark cloud around us. This is having a major impact on our relationship. I feel that I have lost him already. How can I help him through this and get him to believe that he has a good life to live?