I'm so scared

I'm really really scared on monday my boyfriend of 6 months has just been diagnosed with lung cancer. And I'm finding it hard to take it all in. And it doesn't help we dont know more until we see the lung specialist.  

And I've also got clinical depression and it's really hitting me hard. I'm scared hes going to die 

  • Hello Deb, 

    Welcome to the forum although I'm sorry to hear about the diagnosis that your boyfriend has recently been given. 

    We know that waiting for tests and results can be a very difficult time and it's natural to think about all possible outcomes. Hopefully when you see the lung specialist they will be able to answer your questions. 

    I would certainly suggest that you make an appointment to see your own GP so that you can let them know what is happening. That way if you need addtional support with managing your own health over the coming weeks and months they will be there for you. 

    You're also welcome to talk to our team of nurses if you think it may help. They're available Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm on 0808 800 4040. 

    I hope that your boyfriend doesn't have to wait too long for the specialist appointment. Keep in touch and let us know how things go. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator