I have been on anti depressants since the beginning of the year, thank goodness, I am not sure what kind of state I'd be in otherwise!
My husband is getting weaker and weaker by weeks, if not by days. They stopped all treatment in February as the chemo was not working.
He's now hardly eating (maybe 1/2 tin of soup in the evening, that's it). Sometimes it stays in, sometimes it doesn't... They fitted a syringe driver a couple of weeks ago loaded with anti-sickness drugs and they are still trying to find the right cocktail that will stop the nausea but not cause him to be too drowsy at the same time.
He is not going out any more and struggling so much to go up/down the stairs (our bathroom and bedroom are upstairs but the living area is downstairs and he doesn't want to stay in bed all day). I am so worried he might fall down the stairs one day.
He also finds it exhausting just to hold a conversation and his voice is all muted which makes him sound even weaker. When I ask how he is feeling, he says he isn't too good but can't really explain which bit (he says he isn't in pain).
I asked the GP last week realistically how long he had left, and she said probably "weeks to short months" - I am so scared... What is going to happen? Will he be getting much worse? The doctor said he will be less and less awake and more sleepy but I feel like I can't deal with the coming weeks at all... We have no family around (he has none and mine is abroad) and we have no children. I can't say I have many friends either as my husband was never a very social person so we never really got to socialise with people. I have a couple of very good work colleagues but that's about it.
Until now I was pretty good with keeping busy with work and craft activities but just lately with hubby getting worse I can't get it out of my head or concentrate on anything, and the anxiety is eating at me.
I was wondering how you are all coping?