I have very mixed up feelings about my cancers. (Primary bowel, secondary liver and then recently malignant melanoma) At the moment I am ok, the doctors won't say I am cancer free, it's too early for that but I have been told to get on and enjoy life but I can't! I just feel cancer is hanging over me all the time stalking me! I live from one check up to the next. People say I've been given a second chance, my treatment is over, I should be on top of the world but I'm not. Everyone expects me to be back to normal but some days I don't feel 100% but I'm meant to be better. Although I have a fantastic support network of family and friends sometimes I just want to go away and curl up in a hole and stay there. I am aware that I'm beginning to distance myself from life, I don't want to go out (although I make myself) I don't enjoy the things I used to....I just feel a bit numb inside. I don't want to get involved with my families’ lives and sometimes I wish they would just leave me alone. I know this sounds so ungrateful and selfish and I would never voice these feelings to anyone so it is good to let it out here!