Hello tamtam2; sorry to hear about your grandmother.

There is no set pattern for the last days or hours for a death.  I have known people who were conscious up to the last moments before death, another who died in his sleep.  I honestly don't believe that the actions taken would have made any great difference at the stage you are describing in your grandmother's end of life.  I am not a doctor or nurse or anything remotely medical by the way; just somebody who has helped with caring for neighbours and friends who had terminal cancer.  If you are concerned about your grandmother's death then you could ring the nurses here on Freefone 0808 808 4040.  They work Monday to Friday 9am-5pm.  I don't really know how much your grandmother might have felt or heard in her last moments; some people think that hearing is still functioning until the very end.    Please remember that these are only my own personal experiences; others may have different ones.   The death of a loved one is always upsetting but I think your grandmother would have been aware of her family's presence and that would have been the most important thing.  Annie

[@Annieliz]‍ thanks for your reply

i forgot to mention the dates, she was diagnosed on july 2015, sadly she did not finish her radiation sessions because of a fall that led to a fractured joint in her hip in april 2016 then it spread after 

before she died one of her half open eyes had a tear on it, i gently rubbed it with a tissue, i hope she heard us before she left us behind