I have a dilemma.......

I have lived with the diagnosis of breast cancer for nearly a year, have gone through chemo and radiotherapy. My dilemma is - 1. I want to make 'memories' with my 17 year old grandaugjter which involves a two night stay in  London. 2. I have a husband who has recently had a knee replacement op. broken hip following fall, and diagnosed today with blood clots in same leg.

i want to make memories wih my granddaughter, I, want to stay and nurse my husband, I want to be selfish and do what I want to do if my conscience would let me. 

 

So?......what do I do 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

  • Hi purplelily ...... it's been a while since I've seen you on the site and I'm so glad you are doing well. I am sorry to hear your hubby is poorly.

    I think if he has someone who can be with him for a few days, it would be lovely for you and your granddaughter to have a couple of days together.  If he is a little too unwell at this moment in time, why not wait a month or two before venturing too far afield and have some days out for now, or visit the theatre, have afternoon tea and just time together generally.  The happiest times I have with my children are just walking and talking together about all sorts.

    Keep in touch. Much love and all the best to you and your family. X