im a couple of months out of treatment and recovery is long and painful. im trying to be more social but when i meet new people i feel like i need to explain why i look like i do, why im unable to do some things and why i cant commit to plans fully. and i feel i can't talk to someone on a romantic level without telling them about my cancer because it's like im deceiving them or something. like some people might not want that kind of baggage. i excuse myself for looking how i do because i don't want people to think i look how i do out of choice. i can't quite accept that im not magically gonna turn back into my old self and that how i look now is really me. if i can't accept it, how is a future partner meant to?