Evening all, I would be so very grateful for your time.
My darling, beautiful Mum was diagnosed with breast cancer on Tues 10th Feb and kept it secret for fear of ruining my wedding on Sat 14th Feb. That says it all really. Worried about upsetting us? How selfless can a person be! She is due for a lumpectomy and removal of lymph nodes to check for spread next Friday (13th March). They have now also found a cyst on her ovary - unsure at present whether it is malignant or benign. CAT scan is on Weds, no MRI due to metal plate in her jaw. At the moment, she is trying to make jokes and be strong for everyone else. I feel utterly useless. How can I soothe the sick feeling of worry that we may have to face the worst news when she is the glue that holds us together?
I live 4 hours away as my husband is in the Navy - I wish I could be closer. She is my best friend and only 49! How can the world be so cruel? She is a nurse and dedicated her life to helping others get better. How cruel is the irony?!
Sorry for the rambling - any advice would be so very appreciated. Hannah xx