Why didnt he tell me had cancer. I recently filed for a divorce because he acted out terribly. He was impossible to livewith.He was soo mean and act like he didnt careabout no one but himself. I believe now he knew he had it. Now he is in ICU snd he had told the doctor dont tell me anything. I dont understand. I know he lovesme. He had cancer symptoms looking back now, but I had no idea. He's stage 4. I dont know how to feel. He has shut me out of everything. Im feelbetrayed,sad, lost