As horrible as all this is, it's great to find somewhere where I don't feel like I'm the only one going through all this.
My Mum was diagnosed with bowel, lung and liver cancer a few months back and we are currently waiting on the first CT scan since the beginning of her treatment. I haven't a clue what to expect which is really frustrating considering I'm the ultimate control freak.
I've figured ultimately it's not going to be great but my gosh this is all so head melting
Basically I'm just wondering how do ye all deal with your parents moods. I didn't really know my mum until the last 3/4 years and now I am one of the main people in her life so when I spend a lot of time with her she takes her anger out on me and when I try to limit my time with her she makes me feel bad for it.
There are so many questions and issues that I have unanswered and at this stage it's a case of trying to just let it be and take every day as it comes.