It's only been a day and I'm so terrified I only got 3 hours of sleep before I had to go to class...I'm from the US but I was hoping someone on this forum could help me. Yesterday me and two friends went hiking and then afterwards they wanted to show me an abandoned school that they went urban exploring in sometime last year. I was hesitant but they said they'd been there before so me, being stupid, thought it would be fine. As soon as my friend Josh opened the door just from the smell alone I was hesitant to enter but we went in anyways. Right away I got worried about asbestos exposure and mould because there was old insulation everywhere, the ceiling was falling apart, there was tons of water damage, and a huge flock of pigeons had made a roost in the roof, but they said it'd be really quick. I was skiddish while we were walking around and didnt want to stay very long without any protection. Josh was also making me anxious becuse he kept hitting walls and doors for fun.
We explored and looked around before we exited through a door on the other side of the building so we could go to another. As we were passing by another set of borded up doors I noticed a danger sign warning about the risk of asbestos, cancer and lung disease. I showed my friends and they got really worried and guilty because had no idea it had been there since it was the only danger sign on the entire property and was not visable from the road. I went back to my other friends house and we talked about it and stuff before I left and as soon as I got home I stripped at the door, threw everything in the washer and tossed the snowboots I'd been wearing outside before taking a shower. I did this not realizing that asbestos dust could be clinging onto everything and could contaminate our washer so after reading up on everything I'm now even more paranoid.
To make things worse my mom is currently out of town at the Mayo Clinic in Arizona because she has an unknown fungle infection/autoimmune disease that has been making her sick for the past two years and they are trying to find out what it is and the best course of treatment, I stayed behind because I'm in college and can't miss class. I'm really worried I brought home a bunch of asbestos and mold and I don't need it to make my mom sicker when she comes home, or worse. I'm also scared for myself as I'm only 22 and after losing multiple family members to cancer I'm worried I'll develope lung cancer or something even though we were only in the building for about 30 minutes.
What should I do about my washer and should I be worried about getting sick or my mom getting worse from contamination when she comes home?