Hi, totally new to all this, my mum, early 70's, an otherwise healthy 'live wire' of a lady has just been diagnosed with incurable but hopefully manageable bowel cancer, we are a close family but I dont know how to process it all, feeling a bit numb about it to be honest, not really sure how I should feel ? Really sad and worried about the treatment and surgeries she will have to go through but I dont think the gravity of the situation has sunk in :( Is there any right or wrong way to deal with this apart from with positivity and an element of denial ?