My dad has terminal cancer & has come home to die today ! He has had a rough 4 months since his diagnosis & his decline has been rapid numerous hospital visits and blood transfusions but he has decided that enough is enough . I used to be a carer myself so have some concept of caring but my mum & a care agency staff and the palative care team will be our main source of support I feel bad as I can't be there all the time I work full time & have just had a week off to help my Mum get the house ready for him coming home &;liased with cate workers my hubby has been a diamond running us about .. my mum is 80 years old & heartbroken as o am * how can I support her more as I feel bad today as I've been at home resting but have spoke to her numerous times today * I live about 30 mins drive away is there anything else I can do !