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19 May 2022 22:02

Mum was diagnosed in october with lung cancer..she had tumours removed and we thought everything was fine. At christmas she stopped being able to walk and we found out the cancer had spread to her hip. They olerated and inserted something to strengthen it but she could no longer walk or even stand. She was bedbound from december to february and following the op still bedbound. She had radiotherapy and was transferred to marie curie temporarily having physio etc. 3 weeks ago she was sent homr and we were told there was nothing more they could do and that the cancer had spread to various areas ..they said she had short months or weeks remaining...she had begun to sleep alot more...her bone is pushing out of her hip as the csncer grows  she has stage 4 bedsore on sacrum...they say she had short weeks left ...they even said anytime now...i dont know what to do to make the most of our time.shr csnt get up and cries 24 7...crying because she will never walk do i make her moments do i make sure i dont regret this time..pleaseCryCryCryCryCry heartbroken for her and for all of us

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20 May 2022 04:51 in response to Hannah271990

Hi Hannah

I am sorry to hear about your mum and I am sending you love, hope and strength during this awful time. Just keep telling your mum you love her and just be with her - if you do those things then you are doing everything that you can and there will be no regrets when she continues on with her journey from here and she is finally at peace. Take care.

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20 May 2022 08:03 in response to Hannah271990

Hello Hannah,

So sorry for this terrible time you are going through.  Just be there for your mum, hold her hand, tell her how much you Love her, talk about all of the special memories you and she have together, all of the good times you have shared, and afterwards you will know that you gave everything you could when she was about to go on her final journey.  xx

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22 May 2022 20:04 in response to Hannah271990

Hi Hannah,

I am sorry to hear about your mum, I am mentally preparing myself for this moment with my mum and just said to myself by just being there for her and holding her, telling her sweet memories and how much she means to you or what amazing lessons she's taught you. Anything, I am sure you are doing that already.  

I thinking of you and sending you lots of love and hugs xx 

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23 May 2022 22:30 in response to Carlos1972

Thank you all for your responses.



Shes been put a syringe driver and we have been told there may be days left


Please pray for my mum..i have spent the last few days repeatedly letting her know how loved and special she is to me and my daughters ..i miss her so much already