My lovely Dad was diagnosed three weeks ago with a 10cm bleeding tumour in his bowel. It was also discovered that he has a shadow on his lung and he was very anaemic. He had a PET scan, brain scan and full body scan yesterday. He is having an MR scan and lung biopsy next week and the bowel surgeon is having another look at his bowel tumour. We have no management plan yet- awaiting results of all the tests. I am terrified we are going to lose him. I can't bear it. I don't know how to feel or how to cope. I can't bear the thought of watching him deteriorate and suffer.