I am totally devestated and can't believe I'm going through this again so soon... last year I lost my 54 year old lovely sister to ovarian cancer.. still not got over it! Now last week my best friend and next door neighbour was admitted to the local hospice with colon cancer and heart failure! She is slowly deteriating everyday and don't think she will make xmas.. she has no family so I have been the primary career before she went into the hospice.. I am finding it really hard to cope as every time I visit her the room in the hospice reminds me so much of my dear sister and the pain my friend is suffering brings it all back. I feel I know how this will end with my friend as well. I feel so ill and cry every morning just don't know what to do really..