Hello
Just stumbled across here whilst researching about my mum. I'm 30 and very close to my mum who is in her 60's. She has recently been diagnosed with a muscle invasive bladder cancer and due to undergo chemotherapy and bladder removal. She's just had a a scan and I rang her nurse yesterday to see if results had been received (he has permission to share info with me). He told me that a nodule on her lung has grown by 3mm since last scan in June and could be metastatic. I haven't been able to tell my mum. She's due to start chemo and don't want her to have the added worry or stress. Plus I'm in no position to answer questions she will surely have. I feel so awful keeping it from her though. Feeling so frightened that the cancer has spread and we are going to go from stage 2 to stage 4. All the way through I've tried to be positive, but at every turn all's we get is bad news
