Hi,I have been lurking in the background for the past 7 years but have never posted before. My husband was diagnosed with stage 4 bowel cancer in Jan 2010. He had a successful bowel resection and then subsequently ops on liver and lungs with chemo as well. Considering the stage at first diagnosis he was doing well, never had any pain and never grumbled. Sadly the cancer spread to his brain (although it was initailly diagnosed as labyrynthitis by GP!!) when he finally received treatment (and oncologist considered it worthwhile trying) his balance was quite unsteady. Unfortunately 4 days after he started treatment he over balanced and fell in the bathroom in the middle of the night, His district nurses recommended i call an ambulance to get him checked out at hospital. While there he was quite confused (found out he had a urine infection) I believed it likely he had not been taking his anti inflamatry tablets or that thesickness from chemo was causing them to fail. However they catheterised him, sedated him and ( i think ) gave him morphine for pain which he didn't have - he was just agitated (not surprisingly). They did a CT scan and told my daughter and i that it had grown (not surprising as he had only just started treatment ) and that he was unlikely to survive the night... I was in shock and never thought to question why they thought he would die so imminently. He didn;t die that night nor for another 41 nights!! But due to being confined to bed by the time i got him home (to die) he had suffered muscle wastage and was getting weaker (he still attempted to get out of bed though) I am now trying to come to terms with his death and failing - i feel i let him down. I am now trying to accress his medical records from hospitals and GP (not an easy task) i have requested a copy of his GP records and been given a poorly typed "report" a chrnological list of the typists interpretation of his notes what treatment was given full of misspelings and abreviations, no discharge letter but a reference to a letter from his oncologist but no copy of or detail of what was in the letter. This surely is not a copy of his medical records? Are GP's obliged to give you a full and accurate copy of medical records if you ask for them? My husband passed away in July - after having tried his hardest to as he put it "sort this out" i.e trying to get out of bed and move but nobody let him. I so wish i had questioned their prognosis in the hospital. i feel constant guilt that i let him down.