Have an initial breast cancer diagnosis of a rare type and waiting for further surgery, and then likely chemo. I felt traumatised by this unexpected news but then thought I was coping. But yesterday and today I am finding every moment a torture. I can't bear to be close to my family as I feel so sad it hurts. If I could flick a switch and not exist I would. I had to stop hrt because of the diagnosis about 2 months ago and I don't know if that is making it worse. I have been having wine with temazepam to help me sleep at night maybe that is what is doing this. I have no enjoyment in anything and I can see no end to this pain, it is unbearable. I want to die now. And yes, I have tried mindfulness, meditation! Exercise and having a warm bath. Quite how those things could help at all I have no idea. Sometimes the meditation does a bit but it goes after a while. I am normally an optimist but I am now broken and finding every minute a torture. I am telling my husband to leave me now being deliberately horrible to him to make it easier for him when I die. I am pushing family away to make it easier for them. I have never felt like this. I have never looked up ways t commit suicide before. Nothing is helping