My husband as just been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer which I've been told is terminal thou they are goin to do chemo to prolong things. This as come as a shock to both of us I've spoken to a McMillan nurse whose promised plenty of support which is great. But I keep imagining what life will be like without my husband and I feel sick to my stomach I feel like we ace been robbed of a happy life as all I can see now is dark days bitterness is also settin in which I hate this morning I went to the supermarket watching all these couples shopping together and thought of how my husband and I won't be doin that for much longer I don't want to feel bitter and don't want to resent other couples who ace still got there happy normal live but I just carnt help it .