Hi everyone, I’ve never chatted on a forum before but felt I needed the support. 2 years ago my mum was diagnosed with urethra cancer. After 7 weeks of radiotherapy, her scan results shown no cancer evident. Her health was severely affected as were her kidneys, she had stents to try and improve her kidney function but the damage was already done. Her weight had plummeted to 5 and half stone. After 2 constant visits in and out of hospital we were told her cancer has mastersized to her soft tissue in her pelvis and cannot be cured. Chemo is the only option to try and contain the cancer to give mum a bit more time with her family. Friday of last week on the day her chemo was going to start she took a turn for the worst and is now currently trying to get over sepsis. We have been told that we have months if not weeks with mum. I feel completely devastated by this and cannot get rid of this angry feeling they keeps building up inside. Mum is unaware how long she has left and keep saying the cancer is not taking her. Someone please give me some advice on how to cope and stay strong for my mum.
Thank you everyone. Xx